Want to Help?

When you are sick with a disease like this, you hear everyday how much people want to help.  They are always saying things like , "Just let me know what I can do to help!"

First of all, if you know me at all, you will know this is not easy for me to do.  Prior to my diagnosis, I rarely ever asked for anyone to do a thing for me.  I prided myself on being independent (to an extreme degree).  I've never really even reached out post diagnosis, beyond asking family to help out with Katie, or for someone to feed the pets, but here it is --  I desperately need some help!  If you are serious about wanting to help, read on.  If you are just saying it because it's the right thing to say, stop now, because you won't enjoy hearing this, it's not a fun help or anything you'll find interesting.  

WHAT I DO NOT NEED:

My goal here, is NOT to make anyone feel bad for not helping.  You do not have to tell me why you can't help.  In fact, PLEASE AVOID DOING THIS.  I hear it every time I post anything that makes someone feel guilty for not helping, and I really do already understand and know that life goes on outside of cancer and you are busy living your life, working, and taking care of your own obligations and responsibilities. I was on that side of the fence not so long ago, and I had the same types of day to day things to deal with.  If you KNOW you are too busy to do anything extra, that's fine! Leave it at that.  If not, and you are really looking for a way to help out, read on.

Metavivor Send's Letter to Kohl's President

Kohl's used the Metavivor Pink elephant in the room for their Pink Clothing campaign benefiting low stage cancer.  See both ads side by side above.  Metavivor(ad on the left) is a grass roots movement trying to bring awareness to late stage breast cancer which is uncurable and often ignored. We use the pink elephant to represent the way we feel as people living with this uncurable stage of breast cancer that only receives 3% of the money raised by pink ribbon product sales and walk/run funds, and accounts for 100% of the deaths from breast cancer. 

Read Metavivors Letter to Kohls Here

Tons of info (with sources) on the Carbohydrate Conjugate Vaccines

I just found this great article that goes into detail (with reputable references) about the carbohydrate conjugate vaccines for metastatic breast cancer.  It goes into detail about how the KLH and Globo H advantages over other types.  All of these are factors in the trial I've chosen.  This is a bit advanced due to medical jargon, but worth the look ups if you are seriously considering a trial or interested in the way it works and why I chose this particular subset of trials.

Carbohydrate vaccines as immunotherapy for cancer

Vaccine Trial Preliminary Scans Completed

I just got back from Houston.  I went down to get the preliminary scans done for the vaccine trial I'm interested in doing.  My husband needed to work (he's out of paid time off), so I had to make the trip for the first time alone.  It was a little scary at first, but I summoned that inner strength and was able to get through the day.  If you haven't ever done this alone, you should try it some time.  It's empowering and it makes you really appreciate those who normally go with you.  It also gives you a lot of time to think and process your emotions without interruption if you have to commute a good distance to do it.

Resources for Metastatic Breast Cancer Care Givers

My husband expressed some interest in maybe getting involved with some other MBC caregivers for support and possibly to organize some ways to help the MBC cause.  He's already agreed to talk to several of the people he knows who own businesses and try to get the metavivor ribbon put on their buildings in lights in pinktober to draw awareness to our cause.  (Friend him on facebook if you want to assist with this and get more details).  I put out a request on many facebook groups, forums, etc. , so this may be repeat information for some of you.  Several of our caregivers have already "friended" each other on facebook and plan to look at forming a group or possibly participating in the existing private group on facebook.  If any of you have a caregiver who may be interested in participating have them contact or friend my husband on facebook and/or join the closed group that already exists.  We need to take care of those who are so supportive of us!  The more able they are to share their experience and vent the better they will cope.  Cancer effects more than just those who have it!  Thanks to all those who responded and helped with this effort!

Here's the list of caregiver resources I acquired tonight. Click on these to view:


Closed Caregivers of Metastatic Breast Cancer Patients Group/

Friend my caregiver - Jesse Townsend

Excellent tips for caregivers in our video, "Cancer: A Family Matter."

General Cancer Caregiver Telephone Support from SHARE

Getting Ready to Go Down to MD Anderson

Guess I'll be heading down to MD Anderson tomorrow after work.  Have a full day of scans and lab tests on Friday.

Just received a call from the person over the trial and she is going to get pre-approval with my insurance, so that if I qualify after all these tests they can give me the info I need on what my portion will be.

Just called the oncologists nurse at MDA to see about getting started on the Lupron down there (to shut down ovaries so I can take the femera) and waiting on a return call.  Hoping to squeeze it in sometime that day I'm down there.  She was in a meeting and should be calling me back.

Also made a call to the social worker to see if she can find me a facility locally willing to do the routine stuff in the future here locally.  Left a voicemail and should be getting a return call.

Anyhow, wish me luck.  I'm going down alone it appears, but I know you'll all be with me in spirit!

Taking Control of Your Care and Answers to Trial Questions

I "fired" my local oncologist today.  OK, I didn't exactly fire her, we just agreed we had different ideas on the direction of my care.  She is not interested in dealing with trials.  She prefers to stick to a strict path of standard of care (FDA approved) drugs.  I know that these drugs prolong life for whatever limited amount of time they can keep your cancer in check (average 5 years) but none of them have good success rates for long term survival and none of them have the ability to cure metastatic cancer.  So let's just say we agreed to disagree and we wished each other the best (even hugged!) and said our goodbyes.  I got a farewell Zometa treatment and chose to move on.

Interview: Amy Huang, General Manager, OBI Pharma, Taiwan

Text below from an interview with the bio-pharmaceutical company, OBMI Pharma, which now owns the rights to OPT-822/821 (they renamed it when they bought the rights).

Breast Cancer Treatment Begins Clinical Trials in Taiwan

Breast Cancer Treatment Begins Clinical Trials in Taiwan:



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Scans on Friday

I have a full day of scans, blood tests, you name it, at MD Anderson on Friday 2/21.  I'll be leaving after work (after 3pm on Thursday 2/19) and coming back on Saturday 2/22. Jesse has to work Friday, Saturday and Sunday and can't go.  I can go by myself, but if anyone wants to go along, it would be nice to have someone there.